it's the cyber sex dude again!
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| Thu, 01-25-2007 - 11:53am |
Ok, ladies, you gotta read this one!
For those of you who have been following my OLD stories, you might remember this person. For those of you who don't, I'll tell you.
Last year, I came across a guy from CL. He definitely had the qualities I was looking for in a guy. Well, we chatted online and we began discussing about our past sex history. I was fine with that because it was just questions about the ex. It led into him trying to have cyber sex with me. I didn't participate in it. Hence, the name given to him...the "cyber sex dude".
Ok, so here's the reason why I'm bringing him back up.
Yesterday, I was going through the ads on CL and I came across one that read very well. After reading it, I said to myself, "Hey, this sounds like cyber sex dude to the T!" So I responded to this ad under a different email address.
I just checked my emails this morning....and it's HIM!
What should I do now? He's asking for my name. What do I tell him? I really would like to give this guy a try again...besides the fact that he was trying to have cyber sex with me the first time around.

And WHY exactly do you want to give him another try?
Have you learned nothing from your experiences?
I don't understand why you think anything is going to be different this time around. But if you want to have cyber sex with the guy, be our guest...that makes no sense to me, but whatever!
Sheri
I'm with Sheri. Why in the world would you want to give him another try?? He might be good on paper, but he still tried to have cyber sex with you at one point. He probably will again. A year has very likely not changed his outlook on relationships, sex and cyber sex nor his morals on whether or not it's appropriate to bring that stuff up with a complete stranger. If you didn't like what he did then with the cyber sex, don't go there now even if he is good on paper.
As for what you should do, just don't respond back. No big deal. Happens every day on CL.