Please Help!

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Registered: 04-21-2006
Please Help!
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Thu, 01-25-2007 - 9:45pm

Hi! I am 31, and have been divorced for a year. (No kids). I am fairly attractive and people think I'm in my 20's. I say all this b/c now with me being divorced and back in the dating game, I am finding that, online, (and off) younger men are interested in me. I have had two who are 24 that have been interested in me. They are very attractive. Since I am so new at dating again, I really do think the only reason these younger men go after me is because they think since I'm older and divorced that I'm going to be good in bed. They hound and hound me to meet them in person, and then I do and when they realize I do not sleep around and I didn't sleep around a lot before my ex-husband, they drop me quick. I have just been going through this again this week. I have a young guy who I thought I could have fun with just ignoring me after he wanted to meet me so bad. We went on one date and now he's too busy for me. I'm old enough and wise enough to know these men are mostly interested in me for sex, but I find it so strange that even the sex (which I haven't slept with either one of them) is on their terms. If I even try to e-mail them, they ignore me and might finally get back to me and tell me how busy their lives are.

I'm just wondering if any women in their 30's have been in this situation. I never dated younger men before my ex-husband and now find I have many attracted to me since the divorce, and that is very new to me.

I'm confused! Any feedback would be appreciated. :) I really would just like to meet someone my age.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: cmichelle75
Fri, 01-26-2007 - 4:06am
If ANY guy you meet on line has to "hound you & hound you" ... then I woudl NOT be meeting them, ever.

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