PLEASE PLEASE ADVISE ASAP
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| Thu, 02-01-2007 - 6:37am |
Only started OLD a couple of weeks ago having been married and going through a seperation.I spotted a guy whose opening line said "Fun and Friendship"and his profile stated that he was also seperated .He was also very cute.I sent him a IM saying "Hi" he emailed back saying thank you for the Hi he would be away for a week and looked forward to hearing from me and that I had a wonderful smile.I emailed back 10 days later ; said I was new to this ;just chat nothing personel.He replied again just responses to what I had written and gave me his personel email address and hoped I'd had a R&R weekend.I waited a few more days so as not to appear D&D ;again just chat said I'd been busy at work,hoped to catch up on R&R at the weekend but was in the middle of moving asked if he'd had a R&R weekend said I'd had some photos taken of myself and my puppy to send to my mum made it sound quite humerous (which it was) and that they would be ready in a couple of weeks if he'd like one , if he didn't that was O.K.
I got a RE RELY today saying
"Thanks a photo would be nice,sorry to hear things are hectic,moving is the pits"
Whats that all about??
I never said anything about things being hectic,I was just trying to make "conversation" he never meantioned his weekend.I still don't know anything about him other than what is on his profile and one sentence for goodness sake.How do I approach this email thing? or him for that matter should I have done things differently?

Agree with Vexer & Stacey. He picked up on what you said about moving, which is a hectic experience for anyone, and he was trying to be empathetic.
Don't cut bait on this one. He seems like he might be a real sweet guy!
Moogie
ITA with the other posters and wanted to add to remember that it ain't over until it's over. I've read posts from other women who've fallen for men who were separated, only for the men to turn around and reconcile with their wives.
So tread carefully with this one.
Good luck!
~H
I probably sounded as though I was far too busy to even email him!! I'm such a clutz .
Not a chance of reconciling with my husband but I have no idea about his situation.
I guess it was the "Fun and Friendship" part of his profile that appealed to me
(and he's pretty cute !)Thank goodness I was able to vent here and not in a Re Reply to him.
Divorce first then date sounds like the way to go even if its not with him.
I'll reply after the weekend so as not to appear D&D.I don't think I've blown it yet.
I'll keep you posted.