Has this ever happened to you?

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Registered: 04-15-2004
Has this ever happened to you?
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Sun, 02-04-2007 - 9:20pm
Ok, so about 3-4 months ago I winked at a guy on yahoo. He never responded & then I quit yahoo & tried match. Guess what? He's there too (no surprise) & then today he winked at me!! Should I let him know or let him figure it out on his own?? He still looks pretty interesting...
Carol
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Registered: 10-17-2002
Sun, 02-04-2007 - 9:52pm
He might not have been a member on Match or might have been dating someone at the time. If you think he sounds interesting and he contacted you this time, why not see what happens. I wouldn't mention that you'd contacted him before and chances are, he won't figure it out. Guys usually don't have really long memories when it comes to OLD. I'd just blow it off and see where it goes.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 02-05-2007 - 12:40am

I have been on eharmony, craigslist, yahoo, match, matchmaker, plentyoffish, myspace, friendster, greensingles, spiritualsingles, and more. I have run into some of the same women from various websites. The woman I am seeing now said we have exchanged communication off greensingles (which I don't remember) and that was why she messaged me off myspace.

My take is we all want to make a connection so if I have "met" someone before already but did not really go any further then I would try to re/establish that connection. And with the number of people and sites I look to do it on, I don't really keep track of "meeting" the ones online. I DO remember the women I've met in person though.

Mark