I am SUCH a big WIMP! lol

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I am SUCH a big WIMP! lol
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Sun, 02-04-2007 - 9:59pm

Well ... spent the longest period so far in 6 months with C & we didnt do "the talk". I suppose we did "a bit" this week ... but not the whole thing.


Last Wed he called & we started talking about past relationships & the difference in dating when you are a parent or not - & i asked him if he ever dated anyone with kids b4. He told me about an 8 month relationship with a woman who had 2 kids he got close to & I quote "But she had an EVIL X". He said he had a very hard time seeing what she & the kids went thru b/c of this guy. He & the woman & the kids apparently remain good freinds to this day though. Then he volunteered "I think this is sort of

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Mon, 02-05-2007 - 12:06am

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Mon, 02-05-2007 - 12:34am

Based on that experience I cannot see you and he making this an exclusive relationship. It sounds and feels like one already. I think both of you are hedging your bets based on past experiences with others rather than based on your own experience with each other.

Mark

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Fri, 02-09-2007 - 2:58pm

Carlos is gorgeous! Talk to him already! I have a feeling he wants to be an exclusive, long-term relationship for you. In fact, he may be thinking marriage. Also sounds like he comes from a wealthy family (not that that would be a reason to latch on to him) LOL.

I'm truly jealous! :0

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Fri, 02-09-2007 - 4:23pm
Ha! lol at your response ... you sure have positive things to say! rofl

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