Online LDR... Need Advice
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Online LDR... Need Advice
| Mon, 02-05-2007 - 12:48am |
OK I this is my first posting and its kinda long so bare with me. About a year ago I started chatting with a guy in a chat program. We started off as friends discussing various stuff and hit it off well and pretty soon we were talking on the phone. When we started to get really close we confessed that we are both married. After 3 months he told me he was falling for me and I confessed I had the same feelings. We both know its wrong but we can't help feel this way plus we are both unhappy in our marriage. We even stopped talking for about month, no contact, so we can try to work things out with our spouses but we couldnt stop thinking of each other and we began talking again. Even though we haven't met we act sort of like bf/gf, We call each other several times a day to see what we are doing and stuff. We make dates to meet online and open cams. Nothing sexual has ever happened. We have always discussed meeting but it was so hard bc I am in the states and he is in europe. He has always told me if you are so sure that you love me just come and I will take care of you but i was always scared. He cant come bc he cant get a visa. Now I have found an opportunity to go meet him, I will be going in 2 months. He stated to me that I must not be that crazy about him since it took me so long to make the decision to finally go but I feel this man is my soul mate. We talk about everything and anything. I am totally crazy about him I am just scared that I will lose him. He told me things wont change because we have been talking over a year and we basically know everything about each other, the only thing left is the physical attraction. Even though we have seen each other on cam on good days and bad days. We also have discussed what we would do if we hit it off and he wants me to move there because he has his job there and everything. I wouldn;t mind moving there. But does it work out? I mean we have been talking over a year do things change? Has anyone ever experienced this before? Can someone please give me some advice... Please!!
