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Question about Questions....
| Thu, 02-08-2007 - 6:39pm |
In general...
When you email a guy and they answer your questions you asked about them, but they don't ask questions back about you, is that a sign that they're "just not that into you?"
If they thank you for the email and say it was great to hear from you, but they don't ask any follow up questions about you... is that some sort of "read between the lines OLD lingo" that I should be informed of?
Just curious!
Gracias!
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Could be, or it could be a sign that they are lazy or self-absorbed or clueless about how the whole thing is supposed to work, or any number of other things.
Sheri
How nice. :S :OP
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So I'm wondering...
Is it smart to just let these guys go, or keep asking them questions to keep the communication going?
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Look, we're guys. Most of us aren't nearly as good at conversation and talking as women are.
The way you put it, though, it sounds like you emailed him first. He knows you're interested now (otherwise, why else would you email him?) so you don't have to do anything else. If he's into you, he'll ask you out; if he's not, he won't.
Either way you don't have to worry about it.
I think he was just being polite. If he didn't ask you out or at least try, even in a guy-lousy-conversation way, to keep contact going, then he's not into you and you should move on.