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what should I think
| Fri, 02-09-2007 - 1:17pm |
so I met this guy online in early november, we started emailing and he seemed like a really great guy. Unfortunatley, my ex came back into the picture and I was going to give him a second chance. I let the online guy know what was going on and we stopped talking. My ex broke up with me again two weeks later, and since then (now been almost 3 months) I've decided to go back online. I've gone on a few dates, but kept feeling like i messed up with the original online guy. I decided to send him a message and he surprisingly remembered me and we've been chatting. The thing is, he's got a date this weekend with a girl he's meeting for the first time. I don't know if flirting is ok, or if he was just chatting with me to be nice. He did say he wanted to get to know me and he was excited that I contacted him again. He also said that he's going on this first date but "it's just the first time meeting, so who knows where it will go". I mean, I know that I'm thinking way ahead on this, but I'm one of those people who likes to be prepared for any situation, and I did flirt and I don't know if it's ok to send him an email, or what.

Give it time.
If it were me, I certainly wouldn't chase after him. Since he's got a date with someone else, see if he contacts you in the days following the date and whatever level of interest he shows in you. He said he was excited that you contacted him and that he really wants to get to know you.
Now let him prove it. See if he puts his money where his mouth is or if he was just blowin' smoke.
In the meantime, I would keep my options open and continue to see other guys.
Just my two pesos...
~H
He's going on a first date not getting married. Lighten up and see what happens.
Reese