me again....8 yrs difference...
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me again....8 yrs difference...
| Thu, 02-22-2007 - 11:54am |
I have a conundrum...lol I LOVE that word!
I recenlty wrote about a guy I met online who is 8 yrs younger than me, which is fine. I took my profile offline mainly b/c I had had enough and it was just "ok". However one day when I was bored I put my profile back up. My guy friend saw I took it down b/c he tried to email me. I told him why I did. His profile is still there and I'm confident he isn't being a sleaze, but should I take mine back down again even though his is still there? I don't think he knows mine is back up. I don't want to him to see mine back up and think I'm being the sleaze! But, I was bored ....

Do you have an agreement to be exclusive with this guy? I'm assuming not, since his profile is still up.
If you don't have an exclusive agreement, then putting your profile back up is fine.
I wouldn't assume someone who put their profile back up was a "sleaze" but I would think that either they weren't ready to be exclusive with me or they weren't happy with me/our relationship and were looking for someone else to date.
Sheri