Ok ladies...I messed up...AGAIN!!
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Ok ladies...I messed up...AGAIN!!
| Mon, 02-26-2007 - 3:06pm |
so me and mr. 8 yrs younger than me....everything was great. I have posted baout him before. He's a police officer which is what I am working towards as well. Anyway he started another shift and b/c he's working I don't really get to talk to him let alone see him.We were going to try on the weekend before he went to work but he was too tired (which I understand) but he said he would call me Sunday when got up...did he? No. BTW, he's 26, I'm 34. I sent him a text later in the day.... just saying hi. Basically I htink he's lost interest. Why? Because somewhere I think he has lost interest in me and now I have sent him a few texts asking about the weekend (he's not working) etc. ANd i am either get very simple answers or nothing at all. Is he being a 26 yr old male, or have I blown it? Should I "give up" b/c he's 26...?Argh...THIS is why I hate dating!!!!

Dating can stink but remember why you're dating--it's like shopping for a pair of shoes, you're looking to find the right fit. I think we (as women) make the mistake at times that we look at every guy as a potential husband when really we should just be looking at them and see if they fit correctly. Sometimes I find we also run after men when it's clear they are not that interested, but somehow we think that will change.
I am coming to believe that if the person is meant to be in your life, it will happen despite the circumstances.