I need advice!!!

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Registered: 04-15-2004
I need advice!!!
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Mon, 02-26-2007 - 10:05pm

So, this goes back to my question about mutual match. I did email him, we have had great emails every day since, until now. Sat. am he sent me a long one with this in it...

"you and I both know that sooner or later we are going to have to break out of this cyber space jail and meet and talk in person. On one hand I can hardly wait, but on the other hand I am really enjoying the completely cerebral beginning and I am relishing every moment of our writing back and forth. I don’t want to rush this as I have the inkling of something special being possible between us. I don’t know if that will be just friends or lovers or just what, but when you write I feel a strange mixture of emotions. You write and think so well. You put me at an ease and comfort. I feel I could talk to you about anything. Anyway, just a sideline there that I am really enjoying this. So thanks."

So I emailed him back Sat. evening after I got home & said, along with details about my day etc. that "I enjoy hearing from you too. Your tales are great & your ideas really make me think. But, I’m sending along some pictures so you have some idea who it is you’re talking to." They were just regular pictures of me & my daughter, I'm not glamorous but fine looking-5'6" 115lbs, going grey... Anyway I haven't heard back yet & I'm going crazy!! Can I email him again?? Help! Also, he sent me pictures & he's really good looking.
Carol

Also, he has been online

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 02-26-2007 - 10:37pm

I dont know. Hmmmm ... how long were you talking?

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Tue, 02-27-2007 - 5:54am
I would say to keep doing what you're doing. Go back on the site, find new men, start up conversations. If this guy is interested, he'll come around but the fact that he has not responded isn't a good sign in my eyes. Do not pursue him though. Why run after someone who isn't running after you?