So now he wants a 2nd chance

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Registered: 12-22-2005
So now he wants a 2nd chance
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Sat, 03-17-2007 - 1:05am

Well, for any of you that read my post titled "Annoyed," you may remember how a guy emailed me twice and asked me to go out to meet him at this jazz club. I already had plans, but I saud my friends and I were going out there, so he could come, too, and if he wanted, I'd call when I arrived. He emailed back a "yes."

I called him two times, once when we arrived, and agin 30 minutes later. No answer, no call back, not even a polite call or email the following day to say sorry I stood you up.

I forgot about him. Well, today, a week later, I check my email, and I have one from him, saying, "what about that date...?!!" I lit him up a little. I told him he lost his chance by being a flake. He em'd back, "we'll see....chex nora tomorrow." I em'd him back saying, "Yeah,I'll be there...with another guy" He made a joke and said tried to ssay he's lost his phone, etc. I said "Look you are OK looking, but a chick digs reliability and you are not reliable." He emailed me back (again, I KNOW) with "I am very good looking, lol, and I am reliable. Please call me again" I told him I would not call him and am not all that impressed by his looks anyway, atleast not as impressed as he is.

What a total dumbass. He thought he could just get another date like that. He has my number (from last week) too bad I won't be answering any of his calls.

The drama ensues....

On a happy note, I talked to R tonight, and it was awesome : ) I never thought I would be dating someone with kids (if we get that far, to "dating"), but he is a dedicated dad, and it makes him all the mroe attractive in my eyes : )

Nighty Night

Gal Blondie

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Registered: 12-22-2005
Sat, 03-17-2007 - 1:08am

PS, he is on match and his screen name is "vincie68" so you can get a first hadn view of how great he thinks he is. He even has a pic of himself in a bath towel. What the hell is that??!!

My posting of his screen name may be inapropriate, but I don't get that he'd be the kind of guy on ivillage, and PPS I really don't care....

Gal Blondie

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Registered: 10-01-2006
Sat, 03-17-2007 - 10:46am

Crystal,

First of all, you are too funny. Second of all, I am so proud of you. I did look up his profile, and he seems like a total jerk even from what he has written there, but well . . . he is hot! But, yes, I think it's great that you told him how it is. He's 39!! I imagine he gets away with being a jerk, otherwise, he might have changed a bit for the better by age 39!!! Good for you!

And, I'm glad things are looking promising for you and the other guy!!

Lil'Kitty

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Sat, 03-17-2007 - 11:08am

It looks like he is proud of his body, that he has one misspelling (sence of humor), that he does not really say much about himself.

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Registered: 04-29-2003
Sat, 03-17-2007 - 12:24pm

I can only see his main photo because I'm not a member but from a first glance I would be like "yes, he's really really handsome"...but


After reading his profile he refers to himself as a meterosexual?

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Registered: 12-22-2005
Sat, 03-17-2007 - 2:18pm

Absolutely!

He tried to email me, yet again, with his number, begging for 20 minutes to meet me, trying to invite his pompous ass on my date tonight. What a loser.

I just deleted his email. I don't have time for this back and forth crap.

And I just don't get into metrosexual types. I'm not looking for a girlfriend LOL! If I want someone to sit around and listen to girl music with, I will call my older sister!

Gal Blondie

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Registered: 12-22-2005
Sat, 03-17-2007 - 2:22pm

Hey Lil Kitty : )

He is STILL emailing me. He asked if I could just meet up for 20 minutes...I said no. He tried to give me his number 'just in case I change my mind,' whatever, I'm not. I deleted the message and didn't even respond, for if I would've, it would have gone something like, "Gee dumbass, you sure don't get the hint, do ya?" I thought I'd reserve a little class on that one and forgo the reply. I don't have time for this back and forth crap.

What a loser. And again, I say, who the hell takes pictures of themselves in a bath towel??? Gross.

Gal Blondie

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sat, 03-17-2007 - 8:21pm

OMG! I havent even gotten by his freaking TITLE b4 I am pmp!

Photobucket

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sat, 03-17-2007 - 8:22pm
Yeah .... BUT .... he is a Senior Sales Rep. for Mercedes Benz

Photobucket

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Registered: 05-19-2005
Sat, 03-17-2007 - 11:19pm
Simple. Next!
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Registered: 05-28-2006
Sun, 03-18-2007 - 5:41am

Only question I have is why you ever bothered with the guy in the first place? He's obviously a real piece of work!

And, honestly, you screwed up- you shouldn't have bothered to "light into him". It's too late now, and now you're doing the right thing (simply deleting), but ladies... don't bother trying to correct a guy like that. Just send them one note- "please do not contact me anymore" and if they do it again, report 'em to customer service.

Match is said to be pretty aggressive about it; so once you've told someone to leave you alone, if they don't and you complain, they'll probably boot 'em right off.