So now he wants a 2nd chance
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| Sat, 03-17-2007 - 1:05am |
Well, for any of you that read my post titled "Annoyed," you may remember how a guy emailed me twice and asked me to go out to meet him at this jazz club. I already had plans, but I saud my friends and I were going out there, so he could come, too, and if he wanted, I'd call when I arrived. He emailed back a "yes."
I called him two times, once when we arrived, and agin 30 minutes later. No answer, no call back, not even a polite call or email the following day to say sorry I stood you up.
I forgot about him. Well, today, a week later, I check my email, and I have one from him, saying, "what about that date...?!!" I lit him up a little. I told him he lost his chance by being a flake. He em'd back, "we'll see....chex nora tomorrow." I em'd him back saying, "Yeah,I'll be there...with another guy" He made a joke and said tried to ssay he's lost his phone, etc. I said "Look you are OK looking, but a chick digs reliability and you are not reliable." He emailed me back (again, I KNOW) with "I am very good looking, lol, and I am reliable. Please call me again" I told him I would not call him and am not all that impressed by his looks anyway, atleast not as impressed as he is.
What a total dumbass. He thought he could just get another date like that. He has my number (from last week) too bad I won't be answering any of his calls.
The drama ensues....
On a happy note, I talked to R tonight, and it was awesome : ) I never thought I would be dating someone with kids (if we get that far, to "dating"), but he is a dedicated dad, and it makes him all the mroe attractive in my eyes : )
Nighty Night

PS, he is on match and his screen name is "vincie68" so you can get a first hadn view of how great he thinks he is. He even has a pic of himself in a bath towel. What the hell is that??!!
My posting of his screen name may be inapropriate, but I don't get that he'd be the kind of guy on ivillage, and PPS I really don't care....
Gal Blondie
Crystal,
First of all, you are too funny. Second of all, I am so proud of you. I did look up his profile, and he seems like a total jerk even from what he has written there, but well . . . he is hot! But, yes, I think it's great that you told him how it is. He's 39!! I imagine he gets away with being a jerk, otherwise, he might have changed a bit for the better by age 39!!! Good for you!
And, I'm glad things are looking promising for you and the other guy!!
Lil'Kitty
It looks like he is proud of his body, that he has one misspelling (sence of humor), that he does not really say much about himself.
I can only see his main photo because I'm not a member but from a first glance I would be like "yes, he's really really handsome"...but
After reading his profile he refers to himself as a meterosexual?
Absolutely!
He tried to email me, yet again, with his number, begging for 20 minutes to meet me, trying to invite his pompous ass on my date tonight. What a loser.
I just deleted his email. I don't have time for this back and forth crap.
And I just don't get into metrosexual types. I'm not looking for a girlfriend LOL! If I want someone to sit around and listen to girl music with, I will call my older sister!
Gal Blondie
Hey Lil Kitty : )
He is STILL emailing me. He asked if I could just meet up for 20 minutes...I said no. He tried to give me his number 'just in case I change my mind,' whatever, I'm not. I deleted the message and didn't even respond, for if I would've, it would have gone something like, "Gee dumbass, you sure don't get the hint, do ya?" I thought I'd reserve a little class on that one and forgo the reply. I don't have time for this back and forth crap.
What a loser. And again, I say, who the hell takes pictures of themselves in a bath towel??? Gross.
Gal Blondie
OMG! I havent even gotten by his freaking TITLE b4 I am pmp!
Only question I have is why you ever bothered with the guy in the first place? He's obviously a real piece of work!
And, honestly, you screwed up- you shouldn't have bothered to "light into him". It's too late now, and now you're doing the right thing (simply deleting), but ladies... don't bother trying to correct a guy like that. Just send them one note- "please do not contact me anymore" and if they do it again, report 'em to customer service.
Match is said to be pretty aggressive about it; so once you've told someone to leave you alone, if they don't and you complain, they'll probably boot 'em right off.