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| Wed, 08-16-2006 - 6:54pm |
OK, I "joined" Match.com, where there's an abundance of guys to look through--I joined because I got a "wink" and an "e mail" and I wanted to see who from.

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I wouldn't waste my money with eharmony...I tried it once--a long time ago...and I personally didn't like it. Maybe after your subscription for match expires, then try it...
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Deb
(yep, I'm still around...lurking mostly...cant post nothing pertaining to *my* life on here cuz of PS slithering around).....
Karen,
I've talked about my experience with e-harmony before, and there is a thread on the online dating board about e-harmony which has a lot of other experiences/comments. You might check it out if you haven't seen it already.
My feeling is that all methods of meeting people have some merit and that the different OLD sites all have a chance of introducing you to someone interesting.
But I didn't find that e-harmony did a particularly good job of matching people, and they are really expensive. Don't join unless you can get a promo deal would be my advice.
Elsa
Edited 8/16/2006 11:08 pm ET by elarisa
LOL!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
I am on Yahoo Personals. When the people I work with found out I was meeting someone to have a drink they decided to be there without the guy knowing why they were there. Well I have to tell you -- it gave me great comfort knowing that someone I knew was around while I met someone I had only talked to on the phone. It was actually hysterical !! My friend Norma and her boyfriend decided that it was not a good idea to go without someone around. Actually they are right. I would advise it -- if you can convince your friends to do it. The meeting went okay and he seemed nice enough -- way too interested in getting the championship game on the t.v. in the restaurant lounge -- big football fan myself but when you're meeting someone for the first time ?? Nice enough but all I could think was -- oh my god if he ever goes out with me and friends he will walk away and never come back. Seemed kind of ------ dull. My friends and I have a blast when we go out. We aren't always WILD but sometimes.......... In the meantime my friends had me almost breaking down laughing a few times because I could see them but the guy I met could not. Need I go on -- phone calls to my cell, faces etc. Kept me on my toes for the meet though. Have not talked to him or seen him since. Actually he came into where i work with his cat ............
So there was another guy who emailed me -- I emailed back. Anyway the point of this post is one question?? Why is it that you connect with someone on these sites and they say "hey we should get together -- here's my phone number" you make the call talk a bit -- have a few laughs and then ------ helloooo??? it's like they drop off the face of the earth.
I only posted this here because I like everyone and how they think on this message board. I have been so busy and have not had two seconds to get on this board in a while. But I will be checking to hear your advice and thoughts.
I hear ya!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
How does that saying go -- can't live with em can live without 'em
interesting about your neighbor -- what kind of cologne?? hahahahaha
HI there...
My best friend was on EHarmony. She closed her account because it took a long time for these people to find matches for her. I guess the process to email one another was way too long. One must go through several phases before you can actually connect on a personal level which was emailing. The delay from one stage to another stems from the other people's decision to either connect with you or not. One can be left hanging and then connection is "closed." I saw how it was like. I was not impressed by that website.
Good luck on your search :-)
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Thanks... that was sort of my feeling with eHarmony, although I do know someone who found "love" from them.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
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