what did I do wrong? (Part 2)
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| Fri, 09-08-2006 - 8:13pm |
Ok, so I took the CL's advice (thank you, wildlucky4me, by the way) and emailed my IM buddy. I know some of you said to move on, but I took the chance anyway - couldn't hurt, right?
A couple of days ago, he responded back stating that he enjoyed our conversation and wished to talk to me again some time soon. He also wrote that he tried IM'ing me, but I was offline.
Now, he also jokingly asked about my photos. I emailed back to him a short email and asked why doesn't he send me one of himself while I dig one up for him.
That email was sent a day or so ago.
I was online today for most of the day and I sent an IM to him, but he was offline. I guess if he really wanted to chat, he'd make the effort to be online, right?
Does this guy want to chat with me or what? Or is he waiting for me to send him a photo of me first before deciding if I'm worthy of another chat?
I really preferred it if he'd send me a photo of himself first, not the other way around. I don't know - I just would feel foolish if I sent him a photo and let's say he doesn't like what he sees and then, he just disappears from me. Not only would I be left hurting, but I would be wondering what he would do with the photo.
What's with this guy? Is this guy wasting my time? I know it looks like I'm playing games with him with this photo thing, but seriously, what if he splits on me with no explanation or he doesn't send one of himself after I do send him one of me?
Maybe this guy looks like that Napolean Dynamite dude. lol!
Please help.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Well, we exchanged photos the other day (he first, I second). I'm willing to wait a couple of days to let him absorb what he sees. I'm preparing myself for the worst: if he bails, then it's no big deal...it's his loss, followed by a lot of cursing! lol.
Hopefully, though, he would be nice of enough to consider me a friend instead of just leaving me hanging.
I'll keep you all updated on what happens.