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Hope?
| Wed, 10-11-2006 - 8:21am |
I'm wondering if there are any good ones left (who are available)?
This past weekend, I was visiting my best friend and her husband/family.
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| Sun, 10-15-2006 - 3:13am |
I hope they aren't all taken. I've had so much hope in finding the one and several (well actually more than several) let downs. People always tell me that there is someone for everyone but I'm wondering where the heck is my someone and why is it so hard for me and others seem to be finding it with the snap of their fingers. Will I find him and when has been a question of mine for the longest time. I guess all we can do is to continue to keep the faith right?
| Tue, 10-17-2006 - 11:27am |
"All the good ones are taken?" Felt I neeed to respond, as I happen to be reading a book entitled "All the Good Ones Aren't Taken." And earlier this year I discovered "Expect a Miracle", by Kathy Freston. She has also issued a meditation CD called "Finding a Great Relationship." Anyway, both of these books address what negative beliefs (many from your family of origin) may be holding you back...and I think they have a point. This isn't a new idea, but these books really spoke to me right now. I've really been paying attention to my self-defeating behaviors. Having said that, I still do believe there is an element of luck in finding your match. However, I definitely believe "Chance favors the prepared mind," "As a man thinketh..". Another killer book I read is called "With or Without a Man." I think it may be out of print, but is available used on Amazon. Definitely a must read for single women. The author addresses the tremendous pressure women are under to "find a man." Great book.
| Tue, 10-17-2006 - 12:07pm |
Thanks for the information and the insight. Very useful and helpful. I do have the expect a miracle book. It's a good one. I tend to have negative thinking on this part of my life since it's taking me awhile to find my one and i have a hard time believing that he'll show up. I need to change my thoughts because you are absolutely right, we can lead to our own demise or manifest positive things to come into our lives just by our thoughts sometimes. It's so tough to change your thought processes but it's a must for getting what you want sometimes. Something to work on but I know it's a great challenge for me.
