old life messin with the new

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Registered: 08-22-2006
old life messin with the new
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Sat, 11-18-2006 - 10:04pm
so i have recently gotten divorced from my husband and went to school and you know moving on.its for the best.well i've meet this great guy.we will talk for hours and not have a dull moment.well last night was the first real date.well things went really well.so hes in college to become a meterologist..so hes busy.well sometimes i feel like im being rejected if he dont want to hang out with me or like he dont want to have nothing to do with me.when in actuallity hes just busy with school.i know this has to do with my past..what should i do.also he says he dont know where this is going to go..i know he likes me,hes told me but i just dunno what to think.its like im in constant battle with myself..help
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sat, 11-25-2006 - 9:39pm

Hi~


I say... just breathe.... look at things with your eyes wide open... don't stress it... and have fun.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 11-26-2006 - 12:39pm

davidswoman19...

Pianoguy suggests you remember WHY your marriage ended? After that, try to remember that there are very few men who will respond to 100% of a woman's needs 100% of the time!

A career (or something that interests us A LOT) will also preoccupy our time.

Start worrying if a man stops calling, emailing or no longer has the desire to be with you! Otherwise, accept his busy-ness with school...and find 'absentee alternatives' which will make you EQUALLY HAPPY when the man is away! :)

Pianoguy

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Registered: 02-25-2004
Mon, 11-27-2006 - 3:12am
i read somewhere that it is not a guy's job to keep you happy. its not his JOB. Get that. no man can keep you happy unless you decide to be happy. Guys feel smothered if their girl is always looking to them to keep them happy and occupied. So if he is busy, make plans of your own, learn to be by yourself.