Confused about emotions

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Registered: 12-05-2006
Confused about emotions
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Thu, 01-25-2007 - 2:21pm
I've been seeing this guy for a few months and I can't seem to sort out my feelings toward him. We enjoy doing a lot of the same things and laugh at the same things (mostly) and I love being affectionate (kissing and hugging and cuddling). But I don't want to have sex with him. I mean, I have had sex with him a few times but I don't really feel comfortable with continuing to do so. I don't feel romantic toward him as strongly as he feels toward me so I don't feel comfortable with involving sex. Why do I enjoy the kissing and hugging but don't want to get into the sexual aspect? Doesn't it all go hand in hand (no pun intended)? Is there something wrong with me?
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 01-26-2007 - 9:18am

No, I don't think there's anything wrong with you.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 12-05-2006
Fri, 01-26-2007 - 9:31am

Thank you so much for your reply. What you said really makes a lot of sense. I guess I was thinking along those lines but wasn't really sure how to put it into words. You worded it perfectly and it really makes sense.

Thanks again. Now I don't feel so much like there is something "wrong" with me.