ARRRRRGHHHHH!!! Frustrated!!

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Registered: 10-27-2003
ARRRRRGHHHHH!!! Frustrated!!
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Wed, 01-31-2007 - 8:41pm
I've had several lunch dates now, a whole Sunday date, talk on the phone every night, text during the day... he won't kiss me!!! LOL!! I'm dying here! LOL!! So I figure I won't act like I want it, and I think it's time to back up. Let him miss me a bit. He has soooo much baggage. At the same time, intellectually and mentally, he is everything I ever dreamed of! I do sit there when I see a mannerism that I think is cute and I ask myself if it will drive me crazy in a year!! LOL! I hate 40-year-old-angst! I still don't know if he's "seeing" someone else online, but I do know I get every bit of his free time. I wrote him a letter and told him I noticed that, and thanked him for it. The giving of himself! Anyway, thanks for letting me blah-blah-blah!! LOL!!
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Registered: 10-30-2003
Wed, 01-31-2007 - 11:00pm
Maybe this is an obvious question but... have you kissed him? Maybe he's thinking "she's great, but she won't kiss me". I dunno, I guess I'm really overt that way, but if it were me, I'd just go ahead and kiss him. What's the point in waiting?
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Registered: 10-27-2003
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 5:42am
He knows, and it came close, but the elevator went down and the doors opened and that was that! I made reference to it and told him he was lucky the elevator didn't go up! I figure if I just quit thinking about it, it will happen... but it's hard not to!! LOL!!
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 2:45pm

I think you're right... back off just a bit and when you're with him... make your lips.... more unavailable :-)


I mean, if you're having fun... keep having fun (especially if nothing else interesting has caught your eye).


Let us know if something happens.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 10-27-2003
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 7:20pm
I think I did good today! He works, is a single parent and also takes alot of responsibility for 2 grand kids. The time he has off for himself, for the last month, he has been spending it with me and getting to know me. I know this, so I just wrote him a thank-you note for his willingness to "carve out" a little time for us. I think he must have gotten it today. I got a text msg with nothing but the word sweet all over the screen! But that's how I feel, I think it's wonderful that he does that for me! Shoot, he doesn't know how sweet it could be! LOL!! IF HE WOULD KISS ME!!! LOL!! tee-hee, I feel like a teenager!!