Just some advice
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Just some advice
| Tue, 03-20-2007 - 12:59pm |
So let me set this question up first. Met a guy this past weekend (St.Pattys day)and totally hit it off (we were at a bar). We are both very good looking and new that hter was an immediate physical attraction. We ended up talking for like 5 hours that night. We found out that we both are interested in a lot of the same things, had a lot in common. Even showed me pics of different things on his phone.We ended up kissing, a lot! We were at this bar for like 5 hours and at first he was a little drunk and then he sobered up completely. Before the end of the night he asked me for my number and,obviously I gave it to him. we contined to talk for a while. He was going to leave then decided to stay and walk me and my friends home.(We live like 1/4 mile away. It turns out he live like 2 blocks away from me. We were really cute together adn we gave eachother a kiss goodbye, we turned our separate ways adn then i called his name and he came running back to give me another kiss. This was late Saturday night. it's now Tuesday. Should I give up hope that he is going to call? And, why do men do this? Do men get cold feet?

Update: So i hadnt heard from him but last night a girl-friend and 1 went to get a drink at a bar in my town. I was talking about him to her, then whom do i see standing at the bar? Him. He noticed my friend and i then came over to us. I got way too excited and nervous. I really didn't know what to say. He tried to explain why he hadn't called. Literally, he went through the last 3 days of his life, not like i asked him to or anything. Then we were all just gabbing for a while, getting to know eachother better. So ,i asked him if he wanted to go skiing with me this coming weekend b/c hes a racing coach. I was being very friendly about it... next thing you know i find myself kissing him! I don't know how to handle my lustful feelings for him! Im happy that we reconnected but scared that he is going to think the wrong thing about me. I am a professional, educated, beautiful woman(not to be conceited). I also have high morals as well; but for some reason when im around him sparks fly.
So, now its in his plate. If he calls that will be great; if not, then i guess he's just a weirdo cause even my frined was like DUh... he's sooo into you.
Question: How can i control myself around him? Does kissing a boy mean your "loose"? And, how should I make him crazy over me?