Where to begin?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2006
Where to begin?
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Fri, 03-23-2007 - 1:16am

I’m not sure where to put this question, so I’ve put this in several boards…I am totally lost –been out of the dating game for years after divorce.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-23-2006
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 9:47pm

I understand your plight. I too am trying to figure out how to get "that smile and those eyes" to ask me out. We also have alot in common. The only thing different is I am the employee )restaurant) he is the customer. He stays longer than the average customer, finding some reason or another including "can I have a glass of water?" took me 2 weeks to figure that one out. DUH!! He flirts in front of others. Some thought we were dating. I want to be!!!!! My son says he's shy and I will have to make the first move. Dang! How do I do it with out looking like a ?

I also think just handing him my number is so LAME! I have to hand write tickets and my boss sees them right away so no messages can be on them. If we get into a conversation and customers or co workers (I call it butt in) then it gets lost.

I can't wait to read any advise that is sent to you. I really want this to move forward.

Right now is the perfect time for you to get out. Taking care of a loved one is very tiring (been there) don't regret one moment of it either. Caretakers have to take care of themselves. That was stressed to me. Good Luck!