How do I do it ? about flirting....
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| Sat, 03-24-2007 - 12:21am |
Hi there,
I recently finished a 4.5 year on and off long-distance relationship. I don't think I'm ready for something serious yet, but I miss companionship and well, some intimacy, since I only saw my ex for 2 weeks in the past 9 months.
I tried an online dating service and met with a few guys, but being kind of a serious person, we seem to end up talking about serious things and it would be nice if I was looking for friends, but I want flirting and romance, something that I didn't have for so long. But from the other side, I'm a bit afraid to look like someone "easy". I don't really have problems with sexuality or anything like that, I just want to have nice times but with someone who respects me and doesn't see me just as a sexual object...
I don't know may be because I've been in a relationship for so long and actually I've never had to date, because my exes always initiated contact, I'm not sure how to behave.
What should I talk about? We seem to always end up talking about relationships, politics, I don't know what else....Maybe I'm just meeting serious men ? But they seem flirtacious online...Or it's something in my attitude ?
And I am pretty good-looking and consider myself pretty sexy, so it's not that they have reasons to be like that with me....
Thanks for any insight

sireanita...
Pianoguy thinks you shouldn't attempt to 'program any conversation' with anybody! What you talk about is usually determined by 'your moods' and the moment!
On-line dating services AREN'T ALWAYS 'the sure-cure' for loneliness! If S-E-X without any sort of commitment is your objective...then an O.L.D.S. (on-line dating service) has its advantages!
Remember that the words you use in your emails and on-line conversations will often give a man the impression about the 'type of woman' you are! So if you're writing details about yourself that don't necessarily apply in your case...you can't expect us to accurately---"figure you out!"
Pianoguy