Is he CRAZY?

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Registered: 03-12-2007
Is he CRAZY?
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Mon, 03-26-2007 - 4:34pm

Please help me with this!

So, i was kinda talking to a guy for a while. One night we ended up going ot his place, he gave me pj's we started hooking up... nothing crazy. We were having a great time, laughing joking around, rough housing...Then, he gets up for a drink, comes back to the bed and say's "I need to drive you home",(3:30 am)"i don't like people around me", "i need time alone".... I was like WHAT??!!! There was some drinking involved earlier in the night. At first, i didn't understand and thought he was joking, but he was serious. I threw on my clothes and told him not to worry about it, that i'd walk home. I went through the door, only making it a block then came back to his house cause i was scared. He drove me home and i began to ask him if it was me,blah blah blah. He said that he doesn't like people adn that it has nothing to do with me.He said he would have done this to any of his friends. Well, i walked out the door, not knowing what to say to him; simply, i just said "i don't know what to say to you." This was Friday night...Why did this happen? What if i had slept with him? Do you think he will call?

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Registered: 09-27-2004
In reply to: jessicad22
Mon, 03-26-2007 - 5:49pm
Sounds like a nutcase to me. Just be glad that you didn't sleep with him. Even if he does call, I wouldn't date someone like that. It appears as if this one needs some therapy.
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Registered: 10-16-2006
In reply to: jessicad22
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 4:52pm

"Why did this happen? What if i had slept with him? Do you think he will call?"

Why would you want him to call? How can someone say "I don't like people around"? I mean, if he's this weird early on, can you imagine what it will be like in 6 months?

You say you were drinking. I've been around people whose personalities drastically change when they're drinking, and also when the alcohol is wearing off. Or, he could just be a nutcase.

A little unsolicited advice: I'd be a little more careful around men you've just met if I were you. Things can spin out of control before you know it. Not to be paraoid or anthing. Just be careful, OK? --FG

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Registered: 06-22-2006
In reply to: jessicad22
Thu, 03-29-2007 - 3:10pm

Yup, as a fruitcake.

I wouldn't wait by the phone if I were you. Even if he does call, he obviously has some SERIOUS issues that I wouln't want to deal with. Life can get complicated enough without purposely opening up a can of worms like that. Just chalk it up to a fun night (until it wasn't anymore) and move on! IMHO.

Samantha