not too pushy

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2003
not too pushy
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Tue, 04-17-2007 - 4:02pm

Hi,

I've recently started dating this guy and I think he's great! We've spent the past two weekends together and a day in between. It's been really nice, walks in the park and out to restaurants. He's always opening the door or holding my hand. Not too worried about the physical attraction between the two of us. However I'm not a big talker and he is, and not a big planner but he get restless very easily. SOOOO to make a long story short I'm not being very pushy in this situation, e.g. I don't call him he calls me. Should I be a little more aggressive to get what I want or do you think that will scare him away?

Thanks

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2003
Wed, 04-18-2007 - 9:37am

Hey peacelily,

This is just my opinion, but I think he is enjoying the chase! Play with it for a while. The fact that he is a big talker and planner already, you might just want to slow this down. Sit back and see how it goes.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2003
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 7:53pm
I think you should just be yourself. He obviously likes the person that you are.

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