ok whats up with him ?

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Registered: 04-15-2007
ok whats up with him ?
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Tue, 04-17-2007 - 8:56pm

i have been kinda seeing this guy from work for all most 30 days now.. well only at work
i work 6:30 to 3pm and he works 4:30 pm to 1 am. so its been kinda hard to see each other
i stay later and he comes in early when he can. he is remodling a house i have 3 kids and i stay busy and so does he. i am 32 he is 45 . he seems to like me bur when i ask him if he would like to go out and do some thing. he cant. i know he realy should not take off from work to go out . but there is weekends but then he is working on that darn house.

he calles me his sweety n stuff.
when we first started to talk i told him i wanted to take it slow . told him my ex said he would burn my place down with me n kids inside so i wanted to take it one day at a time
well any way he said he wanted to kiss me but was to shy to. i want to but i just dont want to seem to pushy . ya know.
i have asked him if he would help me move my stuff this week end . i dont know if he will or not.

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Registered: 05-19-2003
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 9:43pm

It sounds like he does like you and

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Registered: 04-15-2007
Sat, 04-21-2007 - 7:12pm

well he has not came over today to help me move but then there is all ways sunday . if not thats fine i will not be upset with him. its kinda to soon to ask him if he would help
me move . he did say he cant wiat to get that house done. so he can move out

it was on wednessday i stayed late at work. we seen each other in the hall way and he asked what time i get off i said 4:30 , he told me to come get him be for i leace .
well that day i had to park all most 2 blocks a way from work . he walked me to my van
it was a very nice suprise . he did tell me that he is starting on days monday .
i am so happy abput that. i am not sure if he will be in my building or the one ten mile from where i am . i hope its in my building

i have told him i will cut back on the smokeing ciggs, i realy have not tried. he knows i will not smoke around him or in his car or in mine when he is with me.

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Registered: 04-15-2007
Sun, 04-22-2007 - 9:50pm
well he has not called me or come over to help me move . oh well he is going to start on days on monday. i hope its in my building but i am only working half a day on monday
i am not sure if i will he time to see him if he is even in my building or not.
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Registered: 05-11-2004
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 9:39pm
Just curious if you've seen or heard from him this week and if he ended up working in your building?

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Registered: 04-15-2007
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 5:42am
well he did not help me move and he was off monday and tuesday. i seen him wednessday finally . he is still on nights till may 15 . he was suposse to come in to work ealry (3:30) but he didnt, i was hurt n upset. he got to work 4:15 he did not walk me to my van this time. he is being distant and kinda cold to me. i talked to him two times on the phone . not very long maybe 3 min or 4 min . i told him i was going to be late to day to work due to my son jamie got student of the month and school is haven a party to them . i told him i would work till 3;30 but no later if he wanted to see me he would have to come in around 3;30 to see me. i would not wait around on him any more. we have been seeing each other this way for over a month now. what is up with that ???? well i do need to get of the pc now ro get ready . talk to ya later on , hope ya have a great day
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Registered: 05-11-2004
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 10:22am

Congrats on your son making student of the month! That is awesome!! I bet you're really proud and you should be!!


As far as your guy friend....hopefully he'll get on the same shift you are soon. It seems like that would make things a whole lot easier.

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Registered: 04-15-2007
Sat, 04-28-2007 - 8:24pm
thanks about the son part.
but i did end up stayn later on friday till 5;00 pm . jim was supprised to see me there so late. any way he did not walk me to my van this time agin. but i did call him n we talked for a few min but later on i called him left a messeage that i was going out last night to try to give me a call be for i left. well bout 1 hr later he called he seemed a little jeoulse that i was going out n he did not know if it was a man or a girl freinds night out thing or not. but i told him it was a girls night out . that seemed to make him feel a little better but he still seemed upset just a tad bit . later on i called him back n told him i did not go out kif=ds n i watvhed flicka the movie n i last track of time , he seemed happy about that . but when will him and i go out thats what i would like. . hope ta hear from ya soon.
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Registered: 05-11-2004
Sat, 04-28-2007 - 9:46pm

I'm still wondering if maybe he hasn't asked you to go out on an actual date because he can't afford to pay for a date. A know a lot of guys like that who feel if they can't afford to treat you to an expensive date they feel like they shouldn't ask at all.


I do exactly what you've been doing....keep it friendly and open and see where it goes. ;0)

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