Am I Really Ready?

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Registered: 05-19-2003
Am I Really Ready?
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Thu, 04-19-2007 - 7:57pm

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 04-21-2007 - 3:54pm

Hi fastlaney!

Pianoguy has a question for you?

"Are you just interested in S-E-X...or are you expecting something more serious to develop between you and...err...'the stud' after the deed is done?

Depending upon your answer, I think you're either ready for a succession of "one nighters" or will end up waiting for YOUR MR. RIGHT to come along?

Pianoguy

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Registered: 05-19-2003
Sat, 04-21-2007 - 8:47pm

Hi PianoGuy........To be completely honest, as my 22 year old daughter would put it, I'm looking for a friend with benefits. I'd like to have a casual dating relationship with a nice guy who has a great sense of humor. It would be nice if that relationship evolved into a sexual relationship. I'm not opposed to a serious long term relationship but that's not what I'm looking for in the near future. I divide my time between my home in Ohio and my daughter's place in Tennessee. What I'd really like is to meet a guy in Tennessee so I could I have someone to hang out with while I'm there.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 04-22-2007 - 3:45pm

Hi Fastlaney!

First...PG thinks your dancing icon is very cool! :)

My suggestion is that the next time you're in Tennessee...ask around if there are any "singles clubs" in the area? I'm sure you can find activities that involve other singles who have a similar desire for the FWB arrangement?

Just keep in mind that not ALL of these result in marriage...or even a long-term friendship? Romantic chemistry takes time if it's really going to IGNITE!

Pianoguy

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Registered: 05-19-2003
Sun, 04-22-2007 - 6:50pm

"Just keep in mind that not ALL of these result in marriage..."


Aaaaaaa....who said anything about marriage! ;0) Don't scare me with such talk, that is the last thing I want.


Seriously, I have never been married and I have no intention of ever getting married. I've dated and I have some great long term relationships but when it came down to it, I'm just not the marrying kind.

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