need advice, im new to this board

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Registered: 12-15-2003
need advice, im new to this board
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Mon, 05-07-2007 - 9:54pm
Hello, my name is Denise. I am 36, new to the boards, and just started dating again after being a widow for almost 4 years.I joined an online dating service, and have met a few guys some good and some not so good. I have dated a a couple of them already.I have remained friends with one guy, because he lived too far to start a realtionship with.I have since met a man who we have really hit it off, he lives closer and we have been out a few times already.Things have gotten hot and heavy but we have not slept together. I have not dated in many years and not sure what to think about where this is all going or not going.I dont want to chase him away, but not sure what to do. I have asked him where we stood, he said to me where to I want things to be. I informed him I'm not into dating a lot of different men, that im looking to date one person at the moment. He says that he is looking for the same thing.I also asked him if he was not really interested in me to please let me know, he told me that if he wasn't then he would tell me.Maybe, nothing is really wrong, but like I said im new to dating again, and maybe im afraid to take a chance. I hope someone could give me some advice. Sorry for such a long message. Denise
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Registered: 05-11-2004
Tue, 05-08-2007 - 10:10am

Hi Denise....Welcome to the board.


I think that I would take this man at his word and enjoy his company and try to stop worrying. Unless someone gives me a reason not to trust them I try very hard to take them at their word and just see how things play out.


I hope this helps. I looking forward to hearing what our other members have to say on the subject.


Take care and keep us posted on how things are going!



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