How to tell him I'm not interested

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2005
How to tell him I'm not interested
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Thu, 05-31-2007 - 9:54pm

I went out on a blind date last night. We had talked a few times before and although conversation was good, there is no physical attraction for me. Upon arriving back at my house that evening he told me how he would like to see me again and asked if I would do something with him on Fri. I froze. I am not good with face to face rejection. I basically said "we would see." He sent me a text today asking how I was and to have a good day.

What would be the polite thing to say to let him no I'm not interested in him romatically but he was a nice guy.

Help,

Clueless in how to say no

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2007
Thu, 05-31-2007 - 11:10pm
All I would do is say that he is very nice but I thought I was ready to date again and I'm so not. It's simple and there's no need for further explanation. You could stay friends or just not talk at all. I get the same way in person. I probably would've started laughing out of nervousness. You're already braver than me!
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2005
Thu, 05-31-2007 - 11:13pm
Thank you, I probably looked like a deer caught in the headlights!