Should I call him?

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Registered: 08-10-2005
Should I call him?
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Fri, 06-01-2007 - 9:10pm

Ok, so after the blind date we left it with me possibly meeting him Friday at a local hangout with his bike club. I didn't commit and said I would think about it. He said he would wait to hear from me about going. I am not interested in dating him. I got a text msg from him on my way into work telling me to have a nice day on thurs. He hasn't actually called. Do I need to call him to tell him I'm not going and that I am not interested in dating him or do I wait for him to call me and then tell him?

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Registered: 05-11-2004
Sun, 06-03-2007 - 12:31am

Hi and welcome to the board. In my opinion, I'd wait until he calls and then I'd tell him. There's a 50 / 50 chance he feels the same way you do and he won't call at all.


Good luck, I hope this helps.

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Registered: 08-10-2005
Sun, 06-03-2007 - 3:16pm
Thank you for your input. I hate confrontation.
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Registered: 05-20-2004
Mon, 06-04-2007 - 3:54pm
Sorry, my post is exactly the opposite advice as the other poster. Even though he didn't call, he did contact you last. I think it really would be much more mature for you to call and be honest. If you read through a lot of the messages on the boards there are many women just waiting to be contacted by some man and agonizing over the possibilities of why he hasn't called. I think the nicest thing you could do for him and yourself is just to call and be honest. If more people did this there would not be all this heartache from waiting and wondering. I think everyone deserves the truth. Maybe I feel so strongly about this since I am on the other end right now waiting for a call after I contacted him via e-mail. JMHO Good Luck