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When do you know
| Sat, 07-21-2007 - 3:58pm |
When do you know that you are ready to get your heart stomped on again. I am seperated, would be divorced if I had the money, single parent, with no time. I miss having someone to kiss, someone to just hang out with, or wake up to. I know that I am not ready for anything serious gosh I have only been alone 4 months but at the same time I'm LONELY.
I was talking to this one guy but he blows me off all the time, like right when I'm on my way to meet him he calls and cancels last min. Is this noraml. He is 3 years younger, and I have been with the same person for 4 1/2 years. Are these the games you have to deal with all over again. Help me. I need a how to date for dummys and not how to pick the losers.

I have to be honest here. If you really are approaching the dating scene thinking you're going to get your "heart stomped on"......then you will get your heart stomped on and that's not good.
From your post, I think that you need to work through the pain you're feeling over your current separation before you even think about dating. It sounds like you've had a rough time and that you need to heal from that before you will have a successful, positive time in the dating world.
Hang in there and give yourself sometime to heal. Keep us posted on how you're doing.