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| Wed, 08-29-2007 - 4:40pm |
Am going on a date for the first time since the 1970s with a man who sought me out because we dated in graduate school -- he has not seen me since. I do not look the same and neither does he (he sent a photo, I did not). I weigh a lot more (a fact I alluded to). I travel extensively and have business meals with men all the time -- never at a loss for words, never feel self conscious. This is making me anxious.

I think it's normal to be a bit nervous.....hopefully that may add to the overall excitement. ;0)
I have found that old friends, from school and work, are the most "forgiving" of my figure changes because they have changed too. Relax and enjoy this old friend and see where it takes you. Whether it's just a renewed friendship or the love of your life I'm sure you'll have a wonderful time.
Let us know how it goes. ;0)
God, I can relate to your message! I've been dating for around 2 years, but I remember my first date after the divorce and I still feel the same way.
I married in my late 20's when I was slender, youthful, "cute." Now at 52 I am overweight and "mature." It is very difficult.
And yet, like you, I have a lot of practice having professional dinners and lunches, talking to people in a work setting, etc. I'm more at ease in some ways than I was as a young woman, but I am not comfortable with dating.
Hope your date went well.
Oooo...I want to know, too, how your date goes.
Lou