where oh where are the men?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2005
where oh where are the men?
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Thu, 09-27-2007 - 10:02pm

So... I'm divorced and re-entering the dating pool.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2003
Thu, 09-27-2007 - 10:55pm

>Responsible, honest, doesn't-want-another-mother, relationship-ready MEN.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-28-2007
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 5:16pm


Hi! I love my two kids too, and I totally agree. It's hard to find a good guy. No luck here either. I think I'm pickier now. I don't want another guy like my ex, and I don't want to expose my kids to losers.

I've tried the "let's just be friends, it doesn't have to be serious" with guys. But it seems that after 2 or 3 dates they want more, so they end up getting mad or just not calling me anymore.

I've met men at church, bookstores, coffeehouses, and pubs. It seems like there's a good reason why these guys are still single. Am I just being too picky again? I hope not.

Like you, I'd love to hear suggestions from others. Where oh where are the GOOD MEN?