I'm such a disaster! Help!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-19-2007
I'm such a disaster! Help!
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Fri, 10-19-2007 - 8:47pm
I am a single mom who has not dated once since the time of my separation (nearly 2 years ago). I have been married or living with a boyfriend since the time I was 19, so I don't really have any experience dating.
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Registered: 04-08-1999
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 7:44pm

You didn't mean to do it therefore try not (easier said than done) to worry about it.


Men hate rejection...I mean HATE it. From what I have heard, men hate it worse than women. Women can bounce back from it...men have a hard time. With that being said...I doubt he'll put himself in an area where you may be around.


Not too sure if the note thing is a good idea. But you can try. What's the worse that can happen? He reads it and throws it out? If not sending the note is something you may regret --- send it!!


Let us know what happens & hopefully someone else has a little better advice than I have given.

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Registered: 05-11-2004
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 12:55am

At this point, you've got nothing to lose by sending him a note. The worse thing that can happen is nothing but hopefully it will lead to something. ;0)


Let us know how it goes.

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