a stupid question perhaps...

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a stupid question perhaps...
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Mon, 11-12-2007 - 10:18pm

what constitutes a "date" versus a man and woman just

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Tue, 11-13-2007 - 12:26pm

Is your divorce final yet?

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Tue, 11-13-2007 - 11:26pm

very close. we are in the final negotiating stages to settle the money part and both of us want to be done soon without going to court due to the expense.


i know this is a stupid question (about the dating thing), but i have never really dated cuz i married my current husband right out of high school after we had a baby together. i would love for this friendship to blossom into something else, but i don't want to mis-read the signals since i am bad at this. i do know, however, that "everyone" thinks we are dating cuz we are together a lot. some have mistakenly thought we were married!

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Wed, 11-14-2007 - 11:15am

I would wait to do/say anything until your divorce is final then, since it's so close.


It's been my experience that if you're truly friends, letting him know your feelings, even if they are not reciprocated, will not ruin the friendship so long as YOU (being the one with stronger feelings) don't let it.