More than "benefits?"
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| Thu, 11-15-2007 - 4:58pm |
I've been dating this guy for about a month now. We had sex about 3 times already, and we hang out together mainly on my days off from work. Just recently he mentioned that he has a vacation planned in another state. When I asked how long he thinks he'll be gone, he said that he doesn't know. He offered for me to go with him at first, but I told him that I can't call off from work with only 3 to 4 days notice (& I assumed that he would've known that anyway). You see, our dates have been mainly "friends with benefits" deals. But he gets jealous whenever he sees any other guy look my way, & then competes for my attention. He especially starts to compete whenever he hears my ex-boyfriend mention me (at a local bar that they both tend to hang out at). Plus, he makes potential plans with me for the future. For example, my B-Day's coming up next month. He asked me what day & what I'd like as a present.

Wow...this is a tough one. My best guess is that he cares more for you than just friends with benefits and maybe he's afraid that if he presses you for something more serious you'll run.
Does this sound like the way he's been acting lately?