Where's the reset button on my heart?
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Where's the reset button on my heart?
| Fri, 11-16-2007 - 4:14am |
It's that classic moment of hand-in-hand with a new guy and smiling broadly to hide that your heart is still in your ex's pocket.
Sitting at the table with Mr. New sipping the tea from the restaraunt you'd once planned to share with your ex.

I've found that time really does help with all those things (assuming you're not in contact with your ex--in which case time doesn't really help).
I've also found that dating again too soon after a breakup makes things worse not better--so you might find that waiting a while longer before you date again helps.
Sheri
Change is the constant we can’t avoid and if after every relationship we could take a little yellow pill and forget everything we felt and did, we would never learn and never grow.
Moving on is always painful and difficult a transition. However we don’t have to torture ourselves by reenacting the dating seen with the same restaurant, same movie theater, same conversation but a different leading man; it’s bound to get you thinking of Mr. Days Gone By and ultimately feeling down.
I agree with the wanderer form the north up there, time really does seem to help. But not the kind of time where you sit alone wallowing in past memories nor the time where you try to immediately find a new love.
It’s the time you take to find yourself again and be comfortable alone again, let’s admit It relationships change us no matter how long or short term they are, we not only leave with some degree of baggage but also with accessories such as the tolerance for a particular restaurant, genre of music, type of movie, bran of cereal or make of car; heightened anger bitterness or self-consciousness and we should take the time to see if they match with us as individuals or were just part of the us of that old relationship.
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I just got dumped this weekend by a guy who was sending me all the signals of love and hints of committment. Then I read an article that helped me feel better about how men like the thrill of the hunt and once they've caught you, they need to move on. Wow. Whoever wrote that must've met this guy. At least I know it wasn't about me.
It still hurts though. I hope time heals all because I really feel wounded right now.
Time does not heal all everytime.
Time does not heal all wounds. It is action that heals us. I can speak from experience. I let go of my ex-fiancee. We were together for 5 years and knew each other for 6. He didn't want to get married. Just be boyfriend/girlfriend forever. Which isn't what I desire. So I let him go for once and for all,last Sept. 06. It was the hardest thing I ever did. But I fell madly inlove with someone. I saw this person everday. I never noticed them before. I saw they were beautiful,sexy,confident, intelligent,wise,financially secure,healthy,funny and well loved by family. That person that I fell in love with was me!! Letting my ex go was one of the best things I ever did! I am no longer living life to get married and putting my life on hold for that to happen.
Chelle-
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Hi There
Just new to this board, but found your message.
Hi sorry your still going through emotional turmoil. I have been down that road, the worst thing you can do is