Dating Sucks!

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Registered: 07-01-2006
Dating Sucks!
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Wed, 11-28-2007 - 7:43pm

Ok, I have not been on here for awhile.

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Registered: 05-11-2004
In reply to: ourhouse006
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 10:59pm

I know that it sucks but I would take him at his word that this is goodbye. No matter much he may like you, maybe he just can't deal with the situation the way it currently is.


If I were you, I would try my hardest to change the situation. Hopefully, it's not too late.


Is there anyone in your life that could keep your kids overnight so that you two could spend some adult time alone together? Your parents, friends, church members? As a single parent you need and deserve some time away from your kids. Taking that time doesn't make you a bad Mom.


I hope this helps. Keep us posted.


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Registered: 07-23-2007
In reply to: ourhouse006
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 11:13pm

Hi sorry to hear about confusion. "a clean goodbye" could be that he is moving on or do not want to get too attach until you resolve or come up with a solution with your ex husband. Please do not let this guy get you on a yoyo string, (not sure if you are coming or going) Please do not become desperate, by contacting him numerous times. You already sent him an email for a clarification so that should be enough. Wait until he replies. I have been down that road of emailing

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Registered: 07-01-2006
In reply to: ourhouse006
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 7:48am

I have tried to change the situation.