Does he think I'm ugly?

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Registered: 05-31-2007
Does he think I'm ugly?
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Sat, 12-01-2007 - 12:45am

I am 26 and divorced with a 2 year old son.

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Registered: 05-11-2004
Sun, 12-02-2007 - 5:49pm

I don't know what he's thinking but just reading your post made me mad too!!!


I'm sure he doesn't think you're ugly, if he did, I doubt he'd be dating you. What I do think is that HE'S insecure and needs constant reassurance that he's attractive by association. I think he needs to hear how HOT you are to make him feel like he's attractive enough to GET a woman as attractive as you. Does that make any sense? It his insecurity that bothers him, not your looks. In fact, you could be a Miss America title holder and he'd still be this way. I know, I have a male friend who's like that......it drives me nuts!


Personally, I would tell him he's

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Registered: 05-31-2007
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 1:39am

Thank you soooo much for your response - I had never thought about it that way.

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Registered: 03-19-2004
Tue, 12-04-2007 - 1:49am
Don't allow yourself to ask if you are ugly - I am sure you are beautiful. Each and every one of us are beautiful in our own ways. I would say he has issues, especially if he keeps bringing up x's that are beautiful. What is that all about? Maybe he is not over the ex, is not sure what he wants, and as per prior post needs attention. Try to slow down a little, their is not need to rush into things, especially marraige. As time goes by you will get to know him better. I wish you well and tell yourself that you are beautiful, because you are beautiful.

Anna


Anna