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| Sun, 12-02-2007 - 11:30am |
I've been lurking and I see how we all pretty much say the same thing.
| Sun, 12-02-2007 - 11:30am |
I've been lurking and I see how we all pretty much say the same thing.
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I certainly understand where you're coming from with the age thing.
Well, I'm 49 and my BF of 4 months is 36 so not ALL men are looking for someone younger.
Doesn't it really depend on where you live too? I mean come on I am almost 39 and I live in a college town of only 26,000 people. I can't move because my girls are almost done with school. Meeting anyone here is impossible because they have a smorgasborg to choose from. And the ones that are left over are total losers. I have to meet guys online that are 1 1/2 hrs away which makes dating a bit tough, especially right now when we are getting lots of snow and travel becomes a minimum.
What someone can say is not so hard some of the rest of us look at and say....uh wrong!
Hi!
I'm 44 and I am not looking for a younger woman.
geez; I can't speak for other women, but YOU are exactly what I AM LOOKING FOR! lol.
It does seem IMPOSSIBLE to meet anyone.
LovelyStarr
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Well, I want to relate but I am in a different situation. I am a 45 year old, divorced dad, two teens. I would love to find someone for a LTR, hell I want to remarry!
Solve et Coagu
I certainly would not consider you a loser, I would consider you quite a catch.
I think that being a loser has much more to do with a person's state of mind than anything else.
Take my ex-bf for example. He's 41, drives two nice new cars, just bought a brand new home, he is funny, good looking and a
Thank you Laney!
It's good to know that there are those like you out there who are able to look past things like that. I guess my challange is not to make my problem, my problem.
It's discouraging when you are a guy my age, not old, not young, just getting by financially because supporting your kids is a first priority, I may not have all the shiny stuff, but I have a heart a mile wide and three miles deep. I would love the opportunity to love and be loved again. It seems like so many have lost touch with what is really important in life. It's all about loving and being loved, a warm heart and a smothering hug. If
Solve et Coagu
I agree that your situation is not a deal breaker. The right woman will look right past it.
I completely understand what you guys are saying. I am 39 and I have tried eharmony and yahoo with no luck. It feels so frustrating and at times it makes me feel like less of a person because I start to think what is wrong with me.
I feel like I am in limbo because a lot of guys post that they want the average, athletic, slender type. I am not yet in those categories, but I post that I am in the process of losing weight and WILL be at my goal weight this year. I am doing it for me and no one else, but I want someone who will support my goal and help me get there. I feel like no one wants to get you there they just want you once your there. LOL. I also found that guys don't know what to do with the fact that I don't need to be career driven. I love my job, but it is not who I am. Family and the person I choose to be with are my main focus. A job just pays the bills and allows us to plan fun trips but it shouldn't be what drives us. When I tell guys that again I feel like I'm crazy because I don't want to be a CEO and running a home and having kids and pulling my hair out. LOL
Sorry so long, I have just found getting back into the dating world very frustrating. I don't want to be alone, I love being in love and being in a relationship, but man dating today does really messes with a person self esteem.
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