back in the game sort of

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-09-2007
back in the game sort of
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Wed, 12-19-2007 - 1:56pm

why is it when you think you had a great first date with a guy, they just seem less intersted i mean how do you know when to not expect that a guy wants to hang out or go on a date again? and when do you know weather or not it's you or just his rejection that gets u discouraged to go out dating agian?

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Registered: 05-11-2004
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 10:57pm

I have the same questions you have, sadly I have no answers for you or for me.


I am terrible at reading guys. Now that I'm older, when I go out on a date I really look at it as a one time thing. I go with the idea that I'm going to have the best time possible right then and there and I "TRY" not to worry about the future and if he's having a good enough time to ask me out again. When the date is over, I try to remember I had a good time and if he calls again, that's bonus.


I know this doesn't answer question but at least you know you're not alone.


Keep us posted how things are going.


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