How Long Do you Wait?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-14-2005
How Long Do you Wait?
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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 9:27pm

I am a 30 year old woman in the middle of a divorce (first marriage, no kids).


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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2004
Thu, 01-10-2008 - 10:09pm

I have never been married or divorced so I cannot speak from experience but I think that it really depends on you and how you're feeling about things. If you feel ready, then you're ready. As long as you're not going out on dates and talking about your ex, your divorce or things related to the divorce then I doubt anyone would think you were desperate.


My neighbor has been divorced for years and still comes across as desperate because she starts every date with a re-cap of her ex, her divorce and how much she wants to get re-married and have babies. She also wonders why she rarely gets a 2nd date.


I say, if you're ready, go for it!

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Registered: 12-19-2007
Fri, 01-11-2008 - 5:46pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-14-2005
Fri, 01-11-2008 - 6:03pm

Thanks, this is exactly what I needed to hear!