whats Normal wait time 4 sex?
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whats Normal wait time 4 sex?
| Sun, 04-06-2008 - 8:30pm |
I know its different for everyone but for some reason I cant get over it and do it! I've been out there dating for almost a year now and I was in a relationship for 5 years that ended badly. Now I cant seem to get out of my "nice girl routine" I have been dating a awesome guy for about a month he is 25 and I'm 36 age is not the issue but soon sex will be, He wants me now and to tell ya the truth I want him to, Why am I scared ? I have never been a goody goody before. I have dated several guys in this past year and wanted to have sex but I was to hung up on myself I guess, and the only sex I did have was awful! it didn't last very long and the relationship never went any further. Everything is really great between me and my new guy we have a lot of fun but I'm still holding out. What do I tell him, I know he will lose interest sooner or later, he has already told me that he has never waited this long to have sex before, And I don't know any other women like me either what's my problem? I should also add that I have recently gotten clean and sober in the last 9mos, after a 6 year addiction, so I am very very new at this clean life and sober dating scene ~ My new guy is from a

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In my mind I think if this guy is really there for you he won't care if you guys have sex now or later. I mean of course sex is amazing but you shouldn't do it just because it is. And if you don't feel like it is the right time then don't. Go with your gut. He should be understanding of that.
I hope everything works out well for you!!
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Tiffany:
This sounds like it might be one of the best things that has happened to you during your recovery and a real sign of personal growth.
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