He's in contact w/ her again

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He's in contact w/ her again
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Wed, 05-27-2009 - 12:11pm

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Fri, 05-29-2009 - 12:47pm

Personally, I wouldn't stand for it. If he has no interest in hooking up with her again, then he hasn't any business checking on her or having her on his friends list, etc., IMO.


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Wed, 06-10-2009 - 11:38am

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Wed, 06-10-2009 - 12:13pm

I'm sorry that you've broken up again, but I think you've probably made a good decision because I personally don't feel that you can have a successful relationship without trust, and with him, it's clear that you don't trust him, especially with his contacting the other girl. (((HUGS)))


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Wed, 06-10-2009 - 3:31pm
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Edited 6/10/2009 5:41 pm ET by angelhh153
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Wed, 06-10-2009 - 3:41pm

Actions speak louder than words, and I think if his were telling you not to trust him, then you shouldn't. I also agree that if you know being friends with him will only lead you back down this path, then it's probably best to just cut ties and move on.

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Wed, 06-10-2009 - 4:40pm
Yes, that's why I questioned him why would he want to remain friends. I wondered if he was trying to be nice like some guys do when they break-up with girls? .. Or was he actually telling the truth this time when he repeated himself hoping to remain friends, and gave reasons why he and I should.
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Thu, 06-11-2009 - 9:28am

I don't know his true motivation for suggesting it, but with my exes, the only reason they suggested we stay friends after breaking up was to get

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