What to do

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Registered: 02-16-2002
What to do
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Sun, 05-31-2009 - 2:43pm

Hi everyone,


OKay there is this guy who I really like and he's interested in me. He smiles with eye contact, he raises his brow, he makes every effort to talk to me, say hi to me when I see him at work, and he almost asked me out.

Crystal
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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: crystalmsc
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 11:55am
I guess if you are walking and see him driving by, you could smile & wave, or if there's an opportunity, just say "Hi, how's it going?" or something really basic. I think you have to start looking at him just as a regular person and the next time you are in a place where you could actually talk to him, start up a conversation about something very basic "did you see this movie?" or whatever. I think if a guy is interested, if you give him any attention, he will follow up and if he doesn't, he's not really interested.
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Registered: 06-19-2008
In reply to: crystalmsc
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 2:59pm

1. "What I'm concerned about is showing him that Im not interested in when I am interested in him"

Unfortunately you have shown him that you are not interested ,hence

" But he doesn't look at me." He believes ( because of your actions) that you are not interested then why should he pay you any attention?

2. "what should I to show him I'm interested" IF he is still interested,talk to him.
3. "We kind of read each other." Stop reading and begin talking.

Peace