Why is he like this?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2009
Why is he like this?
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Wed, 06-24-2009 - 8:23pm

So there is this guy that I went on a few dates with 2 years ago, and he really liked me, but I didn't really want a relationship then because I wanted to focus on school. We dated a few people casually in between these two years. Then, we started hanging out again at school and talking a lot these past few months. Now we're across the country, and even though I know a relationship is not possible, I just really wanted to tell him how I felt.

I told him that I've always had feelings for him by internet and left without hearing his response. He hasn't said anything back or acknowledged it. It makes me feel really sad.

Why do you think he's reacting this way? Why has he not responded yet? Is it that hard to write something quick to talk about it? I don't understand him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2007
Thu, 06-25-2009 - 12:02pm

There is no point it talking about it.

This is something best talked about with girl friends. Not the guy across the country, who's a casual friend at best. You rejected him 2 years ago.

Plenty of people manage to date & complete school.

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha