Start and Pause, Rekinder or Lost

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Registered: 03-31-2009
Start and Pause, Rekinder or Lost
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Thu, 06-25-2009 - 4:06pm

I could use a little advice.

Here is the quick background story: We meet online, had lovely dates, which involved sight seeing, hiking, homework studying, and cooking at my house. We are both living in a area where we don't really feel we fit in. Both moved to the area we now live for family. Our up bring was completely different. She has had a rocky past, she's now in college and working really hard to get a degree to improve herself. We decided to take everything really slow, (something she told me later she never did before), about 1 month into our relationship a trip I had plan came up. I was going to be gone for a month to the West Coast, and Alaska. She knew all about this ahead of time. I wrote her a postcard everyday and txted her often. I've been gone for 3 weeks. lately the converstations have been short, she says it's due to homework and this quarter being harder then she thought.

Here is what she txt, help me translate "Things r fine i just got 2 much goin on to be thinkin about a relationship, i need to 2 work on me first ; Im not saying u should wait on me and we can still hang out if you want ; and no Mr. Perfect didnt show up while you were gone. LOL"

All i could think to respond was this. "Ooo I will wait! and support you in creating the you that you wnt to become because "she" sounds like someone I may really like"

Did I get shuffled to the "friends" catagory?

Or I'm I just over thinking everything and as soon as we get a little face time together things will pick back up where they left off!

-Justyn
Thanks!

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Registered: 11-29-2006
Thu, 06-25-2009 - 4:54pm

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