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How long should I wait.
| Tue, 06-30-2009 - 1:35am |
Hi everyone,
Last Thursday, I have given a guy who I like a letter that explains how I feel about him. I know he is interested in me as well. In the letter, it gets pretty deep. When I gave it to him, I left because, I felt that he would need time to digest what I said to him. I didn't want to feel like I would be putting him on the spot since it

Ok, I'm doing something here that's potentially an SOI (source of irritation), but it's meant to be kind. See me in CAPS.
Last Thursday, I have given a guy who I like a letter that explains how I feel about him. I know he is interested in me as well. HOW DO YOU KNOW THIS? AND IF SO, WHY THE LETTER?
In the letter, it gets pretty deep. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? DID YOU USE THE WORD *LOVE*? HOW LONG HAVE YOU KNOWN THIS GUY? hOW OLD ARE YOU, BTW? THIS DOES NOT SOUND LIKE SOMETHING A WOMAN OF EXPERIENCE WITH MEN WOULD DO.
When I gave it to him, I left because, I felt that he would need time to digest what I said to him. I didn't want to feel like I would be putting him on the spot since it is pretty deep. PUTTING DEEP STUFF IN WRITING IS DEFINITELY PUTTING S.O. ON THE SPOT. IMO
I also stated that I hope he will let me know his thoughts on this letter. "HOPE" YOU SAID.
Well it's been 5 days now, so my question is, how long should I wait until I contact him to see what he thought about the letter? I WOULD NOT CONTACT THIS MAN AGAIN. IT IS POSSIBLE THAT HIS SILENCE SAYS IT ALL. WHAT WAS THE NATURE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM BEFORE *THE LETTER*?
It doesn't sound good to me, the silence on his part. Sorry, but you wrote in to this board. I hope I'm wrong wrong wrong.
Let us know how it goes, will you?
OKay, now Im confused!!! I spoke with the guy and asked him about the letter. He started to laugh, and said thank you by the way in a very sincere tone.
Confused? How? What is here to be confused about?
The man didn't reply to / acknowledge your letter. When you phoned him he clearly said to you he wasn't going to ask you out and didn't want to mislead you. Why are you confused? Forget the 'gut feeling' and all those things you listed
Hey,