2nd date jitters

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Registered: 07-06-2009
2nd date jitters
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Mon, 07-06-2009 - 3:41pm

I have just met someone online, and we have been on one date. I was nervous for the first date, like most, but it turned out great, and we hit it off. But, this woman is drop dead gorgeous, and very "fun".

So now I can't stop thinking about her, and I'm extremely nervous that I will somehow screw it up. Like many before, I seem to end up being the boring "nice guy" when I am completely smitten.

So any advice on how to not seem to nervous? Or not the "nice guy"?

Or maybe just keep me from making a complete fool of myself, by coming on to strong to fast.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: mattinfl
Wed, 07-08-2009 - 12:45am

IMO, worrying about "screwing it up" is a waste of your time and energy.