Back in the saddle again.... HELP!

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Registered: 08-01-2005
Back in the saddle again.... HELP!
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Sun, 07-12-2009 - 5:17pm

Was in a long term relationship for 3 years +4 after the fact, thinking we were working on our issues. ANYWAY, that is the past and now i'm trying to meet new guys. For the first time in a while I actually thought i made a pretty great connection with someone who a friend introduced me to. We have been on a handful of dates and i enjoy hanging out and looked forward to getting to know him. We had made plans to get together a week ago, and talked about it this whole past week... sat morning he txted me and told me what time to meet him. In the afternoon he called and said he felt really badly but, he had to cancel our plans due to the fact his work friend and her long term bf broke up and she wanted him and 2 other of her co-workers to console her. I am not gonna lie, i did look forward to hanging out seeing as tho we planned this for a week. I understand things come up and people have to change plans but, he said he felt like a 'di*k" and that he would call me this week to reschedule. MEH. Luckily, i went out with my friends last night to a party and didnt feel like a goober alone on a saturday night. haha

My question is should I give him a second chance when or if he calls - or- should i take that as a sign he is not interested. He seemed like a cool dude, and it is what it is. My pride has been hurt haha.

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Mon, 07-13-2009 - 5:56pm

anyone? pleasssssse :)

have i been "rejected"?

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Mon, 07-13-2009 - 6:05pm

That sounds like an excuse to me...and a lame one at that.

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Registered: 08-01-2005
Wed, 07-15-2009 - 9:12pm
yup. its wednesday and he still hasnt contacted me. i guess i was rejected. haha. Im sort of clueless as to why tho, we hit it off...laughed a lot. what a mean jerk haha
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Mon, 07-20-2009 - 2:27am

I agree with Sheri here.