What to do...help!
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| Sun, 07-12-2009 - 7:32pm |
Okay, here goes:
I met this guy online mid-May...wasn't really interested at the time and thought I had deleted him from email/Facebook/MSN...turns out I forgot to delete him from email...
He sends a "hope you're still interested"...drives 2 hrs to see me and take me out on our first date, had a blast.
Continued having a great time until around mid-June... by mid-June I felt weird about something, he seemed not as into me or as eager.
MSN has this "live" thing where it says stuff like "so-and-so added whoever to their network"... he has a lot of friends that are women... they are pretty and they are single.
He's on Facebook daily, updating his status, writing funny comments on these girls' walls... on msn daily with these girls.
I brought it up and said I wasn't sure if I could continue being with him because it bothered me ~ I immediately felt stupid because really, shouldn't a guy be allowed to be friends with and do whatever he wants basically?
So we had a couple of days of not talking... and he eventually called me and we got back together, him saying "next time just ask, I'm an easy-going guy and you have nothing to worry about."
Add to all of this he works crazy shift work... works all night, sleeps all day, etc.
I've been working during the day...now here we are a few weeks later and again he seems not that into me, he hasn't invited me over and hardly calls once every couple of days... I call in between and suggest doing things.
I feel sick to my stomach and it feels like he's getting to know someone else. Or am I just being paranoid and he's sleeping/working/living his life?
The last thing I want to be is a stage 5 clinger...but I've really fallen for this guy and it feels like he's pulling away.
I don't know what to do anymore, he hasn't called me all day... haven't spoken to him since last night (because I called, he called me back.)
Help!

He seems lukewarm about getting to know you.