MORE EFFICIENT INTRO to guy who catches

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Registered: 07-28-2009
MORE EFFICIENT INTRO to guy who catches
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Tue, 07-28-2009 - 6:06pm

PROBLEM: I always see guys I think are cute and my type but we’re not in a place where I can start a conversation, or I am too shy, so I’ve thought about discreetly slipping them a note with my number. SO, I’m wondering: What do guys think when a woman slips them their number without having talked beforehand? And what are the chances he’d actually call?


THE OTHER PROBLEM: I may be physically attracted, but don’t know if we have anything in common. Is there someplace easy I can post some basic info about myself (without any personal info) so he could check it out and see if I’m someone he’d be interested in? (And hopefully if we have nothing in common he won’t call, and won’t waste my time) Like a mini dating profile, but he wouldn’t have to be a member of a site to see it?

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Registered: 06-01-2009
Fri, 07-31-2009 - 2:35pm

I'm thinking you can't slip the guy a note informing him you're on a dating site and to check you out. That's too peculiar. Are you on a dating site?

And where are you exactly that you can't talk? A question or comment seems the easier route than the slipping of a note. I'm imagining the look on his face--wondering what you're proffering up.

Tell us more, please.